neolith wrote:WulfMan wrote:now my wife on the other hand, I fear her alot

Does she play CUT2, too?

lol yep, she does
I'm one of those lucky guys who's wife is into Computer Gaming just like I am.
about 7 years ago I got into computer gaming with games like Doom, Duke Nukem 3d, Heretic, Doom 2, Quake, Quake 2, HereticII, UT, and now UT2003. She started off typically bashing for me playing mindless games and complaining that I spent too much time on the computer. So I made the best/worst decision of my life and told her I'd gladly accept her complaining if she could sit down and give it a shot ( a real shot, not just humoring me) and then tell me it wasn't fun.
needless to say, for the next few years instead of telling me I spent too much time on the computer, we ended up arguing over who would get computer time
lucky a couple years ago we were able to get her her own system, and now we both play at our leisure. We've been in several gaming clans together, and she plays most of the same games I do.
however on the servers I don't fear her, she's never gotten big into strategy, she just likes to run around and kill kill kill. so I've always had the advantage there.